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Ruoma isn't a dating app. We help two aligned people meet for real, then step aside so the relationship can grow organically.
Ruoma is designed to keep you offline - attrition is our success metric.
We focus on intentional matches based on shared values and life alignment, then help guide the conversations so they can progress in the real world.
Connections are kept purposefully limited so each one gets your full attention rather than competing with a feed of options.
Every new User bears the cost for identity verification to keep aligned with our primal objective . All other components are free to use with no recurring fees.
Yes, if you are a (grad) student or already vetted by a member of the team. See Terms of Use (9).